Help! Is He Cheating On Me With Porn?

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This woman has some qualms about her dude's, um, adult video habits.

Dear Abiola,

I feel like my man is cheating on me — with porn! Sometimes he watches short porn scenes in the morning before work and at night before bed. He even has to watch before he can get it going with me or while we're having sex.

He says that I am complaining for no reason; that all men watch. My friends say I am being paranoid but I checked his hard drive secretly and he had all kinds of files of extremely sick and perverted things. Everything he had was videos and pictures of white women and Asian women that don’t look anything like me. When I investigated his bank account he was spending a whole bunch of cash on subscription sites. According to his browser history it looks like he's even watching while he's at work.

Read more at Essence: Intimacy Intervention: 'My Man Is Cheating On Me With Porn!'

This article was originally published at Essence. Reprinted with permission.

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