After reading this, you will know the reason I wrote this blog! People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do with your life. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, and to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to end the relationship. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. Sometimes you unintentionally drive them away without ever realizing why they are gone. What we must realize is that our needs have been met, our desires have been fulfilled, and their work is completed. The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because it’s time to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done before. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, it is only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and allow the two of you to put what you have learned from previous relationships, into building on your current one. Each thanks the other for being a part of their life. Each party actually shows each other their love in motion, and each comes to realize that they are there for a lifetime!
Know that love can stay, or it could go its separate way. Overall, love yourself like you've never loved yourself before. It begins from within! Love yourself on a very deep level! Love yourself by not beating yourself up over divorce or break-up. It is only when you love yourself, that you will have the capability to love another. There is a fresh, new beginning! Also, dance like you’ve never danced before. You deserve to be happy! It is not the end of the world! True love will happen again, just have patience and faith! I hope you’ve enjoyed reading this blog as much as I enjoyed writing it!