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Help! My Child Is The School Bully. What Can I Do?

Aggression to treat aggression is not the solution.

Bullying is heartbreaking and it can be difficult for a parent to watch their child hurt from the pain of getting picked on. But what happens when your child is the bully? How do you deal when your kid is the one inflicting pain on others?

Counselor/therapist and YourTango Expert Sue Butler discusses the best way to appoach your child and how to establish what's really going on in their world. “You need to be a model of inner peace,” explains Butler.

Watch the video to learn tips on dealing with a bully and what to do when faced with this difficult situation.


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