Cinthia Dennis is one of the rare group of love coaches worth investing the time and money in if you live in the San Francisco Bay Area. Luckily for non-locals she also guides individuals to true love via Skype in her NLP coaching practice. Dennis is the creator of the F.L.I.R.T. Course, an NLP based program designed to dissolve resistence to lasting love. Transforming patterns that sabotage love requires the cooperation of your subconscious mind. Such a task is easier said than done. Most love coaches work on the conscious mind but that is the tip of the iceberg. For deep changework an excavation of the inner workings of a person's cognition is required. Dennis knows this and also knows how to address the cognitive restructuring needed to open one's heart and mind to the flow of love that is really always all around us. Her genuine intention is to help others let lasting love in for a romance of a lifetime through her one of a kind F.L.I.R.T. Course. Dennis dishes on the details below on what participants learn in her innovative and dynamic coaching program.
Describe how NLP provides a protocol to do a shift pattern or core belief change that allows love in the F.L.I.R.T. Course ( A women’s course for Dating and Relationship Mastery).
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Many of my clients who do not have the love that they want in their lives, have deeper beliefs about themselves or relationships that are blocking them from finding their partner. They might have un-conscious beliefs about their worthiness or their own value. Or they have had role models of relationships from childhood that have been damaging. With the NLP (Neuro Re-patterning) work that I do with the participants of the F.L.I.R.T. Course, I am finding out HOW their brain is holding those beliefs, WHERE and HOW they started (usually in childhood) and once we find that out, there are many techniques that deep transformational NLP uses to unwire and rewire the brain around the negative experiences of the past. Once the foundation of where these limiting beliefs began is dismantled, then more positive affirming beliefs are put in place. Our beliefs about ourself and the world are the number one thing that can block us or move us forward. We can never have any experience in life that doesn't match up to what we believe. For instance, if deep down you don’t believe you are lovable, then you will not find a man that will love you. It is a vicious circle, until you break the pattern.
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Explain the NLP timeline technique and how it is applied to creating a supportive to love pattern from a destructive to love habit?
I don’t use the timeline technique. What I do use is more acurate and more powerful then surface NLP techniques, It is a technique called re-imprinting which is a way to reframe and revise a person’s childhood and their negative experiences, so it almost erases them in a sense. This is helpful to do around those limiting beliefs about oneself that might be blocking a person form having a good relationship