"Men are simple!" the mom of three explains. "They're visual. They want you to remember why they married you. You need to continue to shave your legs and your armpits! I think women start to slip."
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But before he ever slips a ring on it, you need to make him wait. Quite a bit. "Go out on 100 dates before you have sex!" Melissa adds.
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