People often see the task of getting back together with an ex as this huge ordeal. But the truth of the matter is, it isn’t. If you are sincere and smart about your approaches, you are bound to get results in a matter of days. And the reason for the break up would probably be the least important matter to succeed. If you do not believe me, then maybe you should give the following tactics on how to get your ex back a try. At the very least, it should help you move a few steps closer to that impossible reconciliation.
1. See to it that you try to correct the mistake that has been made as soon as possible. Replace what you had lost. Fix what you have broken. Retract what hurtful things you have said. Heal the wounds that you have propped open. If you can’t turn the reason for the break up around, try to make up for it through other gestures of kindness and affection. What you want to do is translate to your ex how sorry you are for what happened. This should encourage her or him to put down her/his guard and trust you again for the time being. And once s/he does, see to it that you work on preventing the same thing from happening again.
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2. You need to treat your ex special. Spend quality time with her or her and just devote a certain amount of attention to rediscovering and rebuilding commitments. Break ups are devastating to a couple’s sense of stability and trust. Without both of those intact, there is a chance for resentment to poison love. So make sure you talk things over completely and honestly and come up with a resolution to the whole dilemma. That way, you don’t ever get to go back and blame the past for anything that happens in the future. It may take a day or two so be patient.
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3. You should see to it that your ex knows just how lucky s/he is to be with you. Don’t be overt about the idea; otherwise, you’ll appear conceited. But don’t hesitate to think it so that you’d feel motivated to prove it to yourself. Add incentive to pursuing your relationship further so she doesn’t get to think she’d do better off with anyone else after the break up. Make her realize again that she loves and needs you in her life so her loyalty is not immediately shaken.
With all of these strategy at work, you are bound to get the right results when it comes to winning an ex back over your fight.