Why Black Men Date Out of Their Race, the Solution!


Why Black Men Date Out of Their Race, the Solution!
Sometimes you have to go back to your roots to solve today's problem relationships.

The woman was deceived by Satan from the beginning and is being deceived now through false idols, which include, but are not limited to, money or fiat currency, luxury cars, homes, jewelry and job security. She loves the material possessions of the world more than God who blessed her with these very gifts. (1 John 2:15-16).

How would the black woman define her role in the community and family if these material possessions were not available? In order to receive God’s blessings, she has to return to God’s word and follow the instructions, or she will forever continue to receive the curses instead of the blessings of companionship. This advice goes vice versa.


The problem is the black woman has failed to remember her true feminine nature, through her greatly increased independence and responsibilities to support her family. This, by design, goes against the success of the family structure; her masculinity infringes on her man. When a woman becomes too masculine, she in fact consumes a man’s masculine virility, making him effeminate and ineffective, according to John Baines’ book “The Science of Love.” As a result, that man becomes more like a woman, and her strengths become his weaknesses. Ladies, being more feminine is the key to building up your attraction and finding and keeping the Man of Your Dreams (MOYD). God’s word says a woman should be a helpmate and bear children, but today, women desire to be bosses, CEOs and managers.

In the Good News Translation Holy Bible with the Deuterocanonicals/Apocrypha, the Book of Sirach or Ecclesiasticus states, “When a man is supported by a wife, there is sure to be anger, arrogance and humiliation.” To be feminine and supportive of the MOYD is not weakness, but strength and obedience to God’s word.

African-American women have been unknowingly propelled ahead of their counterparts in the fields of education, employment, finances, etc., further breaking down the family structure. Satan hates God’s word and knows it better than we do. He plots against it day and night, looking to kill and destroy relationships, especially of those who love God. He provides opportunities to those he chooses and who subsequently accept his oath through his world system, the same system he offered to give Jesus if he would only kneel and worship him (Matthew 4:1-11). Satan now tempts and pimps women through material possessions and pride, just as he did Eve in the Garden of Eden (Genesis 3:1-6). Consequently, the African-American woman, labeled America’s No. 1 consumer, steals from the man she desires through her own personal desires for material possessions. When she is dating or married to a strong man, this will create a conflict between the positive and negative poles of masculine and feminine energy. In order for men and women to reach true love, a man must remain fully masculine and a woman must remain fully feminine. Many black women have unfortunately, due to the challenges they face in society and their material desires, have become too masculine, and only through following God’s word will they fully recover their lost blessings and lift the curses off of themselves, the black man and the children.

This article was originally published at How To Get The Man of Your Dreams . Reprinted with permission.
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