7. To Pee Or Not To Pee:
Amy, 35, realized that dating a sexually repressed man will just lead to, well, interesting things.
"We had very normal sex until one day I asked if he wanted to explore anything and he busted out: 1. Pee in mouth 2. Shame him by saying he's dirty, so unclean, so so unclean. I actually tried to pee in his mouth, but it was logistically hard and I gagged by proxy or something. Old college-try though. And that was the end of that."
8. The Sit On My Face Guy:
Alex, 24, was always down with oral sex until a guy demanded that she sit on his face. "All I kept thinking about was him dying from lack of oxygen, so I refused to do it. He kept demanding it over and over again. I just couldn’t. I didn’t want to be the reason someone died just because he wanted to be asphyxiated by my vagina."
9. The Enema Guy:
While some guys want to be unclean, other want to be very clean, and their bed buddy to be just as clean as Dava, 31, discovered one night. "One word: enema. He said we couldn't have sex until we gave each other enemas. I grabbed my bag and ran out the door faster than I even thought possible. After that, I started running everyday because I was so impressed with my speed."
10. The Vanilla Guy:
According to Sarah, 35, there's nothing spookier than a vanilla guy. When she responded to my request for spooky sex stories, she went into a rant, but here's the shortened version.
"You'd think in 2013 men would be into doing freaky stuff. We’ve come a long way sexually, and I want to be tossed around, spanked and even degraded. That’s what I like, and I make no apologies for it. For me, the scariest thing is to come in contact with a guy who shames you for knowing what you want. I'd welcome any guy who might possibly 'spook' me, because I don't think it's possible."