one: If your guy said he was a player way back then when he was younger and niave, pretend that your upset to get him to prove that him being a player back stays back then. two: If your guy and your younger sister talks about the girl he used to go out act mad and chase him around the house acting like your gonna get him for real. three: Make the guy your with promise if he's gonna be with you, he better not be cheating on you or playing around. It is not good to have a relationship if he IS a player. I found out last night that with a guy who I'm with blurted out that he was a player and he corrected that by saying he was a player 6 years ago. I made sure he wasn't really a player before then and he wasn't. But you'll never know what would be going on in his mind after telling you that little tidbit when talking to your little sister!
"Over drinks at a bar my date revealed many interesting details about himself. He used to live on 'the streets.' He claimed to have 'beat Spina Bifida.' He had had a fiancé in Japan who was open to him dating women while he was in the States. After all those amazing revelations I let him know our relationship would not be romantic. As we walked out of the bar he appeared to be suffering from some sort of stomach cramp. He told me he suffered from severe IBS and desperately needed a private bathroom. I have family members who suffer from Crohn's disease so I felt very sympathetic to his situation. I offered to let him use the bathroom in my apartment. After he had finished using the bathroom, he says, 'I know you said we could just be friends and that's fine. But, I was wondering if I could just watch you pee before I leave. I only want to watch.' P.S. — I did not let him watch me pee." -Miranda, 33