Milestones for the Modern Single Lady

Milestones for the Modern Single Lady

Milestones for the Modern Single Lady

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What are the milestones for single women, when there's no husband or kids?

Every popular woman’s magazine has, at some point, run an article about things a woman should know by a certain age or lifestage. One of my favorites, by Pamela Redmond Safran, ran in Glamour Magazine (http://bit.ly/dFQgwf). It’s a smart and fun list of her take on life’s milestones for the 30-year-old woman.
But there’s another list “out there” that makes me roll my eyes when I think about it. It’s about the milestones of adulthood (http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/22/magazine/22Adulthood-t.html?pagewanted...)

and, even though I’m deep into adulthood chronologically, I don’t really qualify as an adult according to this list. You see, sociologists have traditionally defined “the transition to adulthood” as being marked by five milestones:
1. Completing school
2. Leaving home
3. Becoming financially independent
4. Marrying
5. Having a child.

Did you see that? According to sociologists, I’m not an adult. I have not advanced to Stages 4 and 5; I’m stuck at Stage 3!! No husband. No kid. Yikes! Continue reading… http://eleanorewells.com/life-milestones-for-the-modern-day-single-lady/

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