Men with low male organ sensitivity rates may awaken each morning with the same question thrumming in their minds: "Is it better today?" As the day goes on, they may sneak away from business meetings, family gatherings and other social opportunities in order to drop trou and check out their equipment. If these solo encounters are a regular part of each day, men may become so focused on issues of sensitivity and feeling that they forget to enjoy the moment. While this behavior is understandable, as a lack of feeling in a vital part of the body really can be devastating, it might also be harmful in terms of male organ health. In fact, it could make male organ sensitivity problems so much worse.
The Mind/Body Connection
All of the nerve cells that line a man's power tool are designed to communicate directly with the pleasure centers of the brain. Each little touch should bring a man a zing of pleasure that travels from his center to the top of his head, dictating how he should respond. It's these nervous cells that tend to cause a sensitivity problem, as they can malfunction due to age or aggressive self-stimulation techniques. But the connection between the brain and the male organ doesn't end with nerve cells.
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The brain also has a huge role to play during a sensual encounter, as the neural cells can take note of:
• Visual delights
• Emotional responses
• Distant memories an act might trigger
• Touches to other parts of the body
Men who focus exclusively on the things their sensory cells can or can't feel are, in essence, blocking their brain cells from focusing on anything else. All of that sensory-, memory- and emotion-based pleasure then becomes inaccessible, further contributing to a man's misery.
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Changing the Narrative
Sensual encounters shouldn't be goal-oriented endeavors that begin and end in a certain way each time. There's joy to be had in the journey, and focusing on all of the little steps that lead to pleasure could be key to helping a man find his way back to sensual release. Focusing on the things his body can do and the things he can enjoy can allow him to relax and really feel the sensations his partner is trying to transmit.
Adding talk to intimacy can sometimes be helpful, as the technique can help men to focus their attention on things that are happening in the moment, not the things that they wish would happen in the future. Naming a partner's beautiful body parts, or describing how an act feels in detail, could be a great way to wipe worries of sensitivity away.