A good roll in the hay or an especially sensual round of solo action can lead men to unbelievable pleasure, followed a glow of satisfaction and a sense of relaxation and well-being. However, it can also lead to soreness, aching and a lingering feeling of discomfort – not the takeaway most men are looking for from the experience. While a sore male organ after intimacy is common, and in general nothing serious, knowing how to prevent the pain from happening, and how to relieve it when it does occur, can improve men’s overall male organ health and even enhance the sensations they feel during the proceedings.
What causes male organ pain?
Male organ pain can occur for a number of reasons and can even be related to more than one of these factors:
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1. Chafing – while the sliding, gliding and thrusting of intimacy feels tremendous in the moment, there is actually a lot of heat being generated by the friction. Most men won’t notice this when it is happening, unless things are particularly dry, but when the heat of the moment is over, this chafing can lead to red, raw-looking skin, or even the appearance of a rash. Over time, friction from intimacy or self-stimulation can cause the skin to overcompensate during healing, and a thicker layer of keratinized dermal tissue may be the result. Since this callus-like tissue can actually block pleasurable sensation, preventing it from occurring through regular moisturizing and use of a lube is highly recommended.
2. Irritation – the male organ skin is fairly delicate, and exposure to a partner’s body fluids, as well as lubes, latex, or other substances which may come into play can cause the skin to become irritated. Redness, itching, burning and even swelling may ensue. Avoiding known irritants is important here, so if a reaction seems to occur any time a particular product is used, eliminating this from the process is a good idea.
3. Blunt force trauma or torsion – in a heated moment, it is natural to get overly enthusiastic, but abrupt moves can lead to sudden impact with a partner’s pelvic bone or with a sudden twist or turn that can cause male organ pain and even rupture the male tissue. Taking care during play sessions and avoiding sudden, forceful moves may take some of the excitement out of the process, but it can also prevent a world of hurt later on.
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How to relieve a sore male organ
When soreness and injuries do occur, pain relief may be the first thing on a man’s mind. In some cases, all that is needed is a little time off, but in others, some TLC at home can do the trick. Applying cold compresses (not too cold, or frostbite can be a real danger) or using an over-the-counter oral pain reliever may help to take the edge off while things heal. It is always a good idea to check with a doctor before trying any self-care techniques, however, especially in the case of sudden injury or for men who are being treated for other medical conditions.
When professional help is needed
If a male injury is accompanied by a popping sound and/or sharp pain; if bruising or bleeding occurs; or if a man experiences an tumescence that does not dissipate after several hours, prompt medical attention is necessary to treat potentially serious issues.