Is Fantasizing About Someone Else In Bed Cheating?

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Is Fantasizing About Someone Else In Bed Cheating?
Emotional cheating or normal behavior?

Have you ever thought about someone other than your partner in bed? Did you feel guilty?

One Slate reader says he can only climax when he's thinking of someone other than his wife. But is this partner-replacement fantasy emotional cheating, normal behavior or a sign of an intimacy issue?

Our friends at The Daily Beast take a close look at these fantasies to find out how common they are in the bedroom — and if they're acceptable sexual behavior.

"Boredom in the bedroom isn't a sign that you're not sexually compatible; it's a sign that you need to take another growth step that will make the two of you nervous," sex therapist David Schnarch told The Daily Beast.

Read the story at The Daily Beast: Emotional Cheating or Harmless Fantasy?

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