Your ex boyfriend will either want to see you again, or he is ringing to test the waters and ascertain how you are feeling about him now. If there is no other way for him to find out about how you are or what you are doing, this will be the only way for him to do it. He also might be trying to work out if you are back on the dating scene again or how you react to him in general. Even if he assures you that he is just calling to say hello, you know yourself that there is more to it than this. Watch out for this sign that he is still in love with you, because it means that he is attempting to reconnect and find a way back to you.
He Wants To Meet Up With You
Ostensibly this may seem like a really positive sign that your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, however, you have to be careful that he wants to meet up with you for the right reasons. Lots of girls who are still in love with their exes make the mistake of sleeping with them as soon as they show the slightest bit of interest in them again. You have to be sure that he wants to meet up with you for a genuine reason and isn't just interested in easy sex. If you find that this is all that he is interested in then you should tell him where to go and maybe find yourself someone who treats you with respect. The last thing that you want to happen is to end up feeling used and him seeing you as just a meal ticket.
Okay, so you have established that he is sincere in his request to meet up with you, what does this actually mean? Well he might want to tell you something or say that he misses you. Don't jump into the deep end too quickly here though if you want to get him back, let the meeting be lighthearted and breezy not to put any pressure on you both. Guys will rarely want to meet up with their ex girlfriends out of guilt, especially after a long time has passed. It is a clear sign that he misses you and wants to spend some time with you again. Watch out for flirting and other signs that he still loves you. They will be easier to spot once you are both together.
Your Next Steps
Now that you understand some of the signs to look out for, your next move is to make him attracted to you again. Even if he is not showing any of the above signs yet, there are ways to speed up the reconciliation process if you learn how to make him want you back.
After that you should really think about using Facebook to reignite his desire for you and making him see you as a potential girlfriend again. You can start using loads of proven Facebook techniques to make him get in touch with you and create jealousy in him. The best thing about it is that he doesn't even know that you are doing it as they are really subtle techniques. Lots of girls are using these secret strategies now to win back their ex boyfriends.