Although adult sex toys are now far less taboo than they once were, it is fair to say that many people still inherently feel the need to distance themselves from them. Indeed, some people may feel as though they simply do not need ‘that kind of thing’ while others may anticipate that some kind of inevitable embarrassment or rejection of them will cause difficulties.
Whatever a person’s reasons might be for avoiding vibrators or steering clear of dildos, it is a fact that they simply won't know whether or not they will like one sex toy or another if they do not at least try it out. After all, saying ‘Such and such sex toy is not for me’ without trying it first is a bit like saying ‘I don’t like Indian food’ without even tasting a curry!
The truth is that there are actually a number of very good reasons for trying out sex toys..
It is the case that many women find it easier to orgasm with a vibrator. Moreover, it is also much easier for women in general to get clitoral stimulation during intercourse and to reach the G Spot with a sex toy. Men too can look forward to receiving plenty of genuine pleasure as adult toy products of one kind or another can help them to prolong an erection and reach the prostate during sex. The real beauty of these kinds of toys is that they make it easier for couples and individuals to attain genuine sexual pleasure. And at the end of the day, isn’t that what sex is meant to be all about?
Picking up a sex toy and using it to give or receive sexual pleasure can be a very confidence boosting thing to do. To be sure, choosing to take matters into their own hands rather than waiting passively for someone else to fulfil their sexual needs can be very empowering for a person. Having a more confident outlook on sex inevitably causes an individual to take a more proactive and assertive role in the bedroom. Needless to say, this is a development which is likely to reap all manner of rewards further down the line!
Double the Fun:
Despite their reputation as being singles’ playthings, sex toy products can enhance partner sex play by enabling couples to do things that they normally wouldn’t be able to. For instance, using a vibrator will enable a partner to add just the right clitoral stimulation during intercourse, while inserting a butt plug will increase the chances of a man achieving an orgasm through prostate stimulation. Without doubt, many couples have – often quite unexpectedly - discovered new erogenous zones, learned to climax together for the first time, or enjoyed a renewed passion simply because they did nothing more than add a sex toy or two to their after dark manoeuvres.
And these are just three reasons – rumour has it that there are at least 37 more!