How To Give Compliments That Encourage Intimacy

By YourTango

Complimenting Him in a Relationship
Find out how to compliment your man in a way that will bring him closer to you.

2. Emphasize his masculinity

When you're in bed together, he wants to feel like the only man on the planet. So say things that emphasize just what a masculine force you think he is, like "You are such a good man," "You're so big" (but only if it's true) and "I love it when you hold me in your big, strong arms." You could also say "When I am with you, you make me feel like a woman," because, as Colado notes, "men love women to be women." Just make sure you don't compare him to anyone else, no one wants to feel like their competing with their predecessors.

3. Show your appreciation

When men were asked if they would rather have respect or love, most of them replied, "What's the difference?" Complimenting your man on the unique ways in which he pleases you will make him feel needed and create a rush of affection for you. As Colado writes, "Appreciating your man in bed will keep him coming back for more." Just don't overdo it. If you pay him compliment after compliment, it can start to sound false, and he'll wonder whether you're just humoring him. Instead, pepper your interactions at the appropriate moments, rewarding him for good behavior and making him associate sex with you with that rush of self-esteem that's at the core of intimacy.

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