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Is Watching Porn Really Cheating?

Love, Sex

YourTango Expert Richard Drobnick has the answer to this question!

Does your partner watch porn online? Does it hurt your feelings to the point where you wonder whether it's considered cheating or not? If so, help is on the way.

In this video, counselor and YourTango Expert Richard Drobnick says that looking at porn is equivalent to scanning dating sites. "These all create fantasies in your mind, which takes you away from the connection with your partner," he says. "If your mind is elsewhere, your sex life will deteriorate." However, he has a mindful trick you can use to make sure that your fantasies don't overrun and ruin your relationship!

Want to learn more? Check out the video above!

 

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