Men can be confusing creatures. Sometimes it feels impossible to know what he's thinking or what he's looking for.
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From someone who's goal driven to a woman who accepts him and doesn't judge him for his past, Carr counts down the qualities that really matter to men. Which ones surprise you?
See the list at Essence: The 11 Qualities Men Love Most
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