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Why I Love My Ex-es


Just because the relationship didn't work out, doesn't mean you can't be friends.

Twice in the past month I had the opportunity to spend time with two of my ex-boyfriends. Both times, afterwards, I was struck with how much I enjoyed them and lovely it was.

A dear, married-for-20-years friend has always teased me about how weird she thinks it is that I have remained friends with all my exes. It isn’t true that I’m friends with all of them –there’s 1-2 that turn my stomach– but, for the most part, I am friendly with most of them. It’s nice. And it works for me.

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