YourTango Expert Maya Ezratti has the answer ... and you might be the problem.
Are you tired of going from hookup to hookup? Are you wondering if chivalry is dead, after all? If so, help is on the way.
In this video, author and YourTango Expert Maya Ezratti explains that when a woman actively pursues dating a man, she gets in his way. "The problem that we're facing in today's world is that women are pursuing men. Women are taking away the thrill from the guy," she says. "How does a guy have a chance to be a gentleman if you're doing all the work for him?"
The two of you have such a good time together. You could have fun being out and social, engaging in an activity, or doing absolutely nothing at all. Life is challenging, so a partner who lifts your spirts and helps you lighten up is a definite keeper.
Everyone you introduce him to sees what you see–a truly good man who cares about you. It's hard not to adore a man who lights you up inside. When the people who know and love you best give your man a solid thumbs up, that's a guy worth keeping around.