The real life Hitch strikes again and California Dreaming turned California Loving
Yes … I got the guy in San Francisco. The real life Hitch (Matthew Hussey of Get the Guy) was in the Bay Area for a live event designed to take you from Fraulein to Frau or Mademoiselle to Madam in rapid time. He delivered. No, I did not go out on the town to put his tasks to the test. Instead, I “got” the guy. Translation … I finally got the male mind and that alone is a strong start to getting not just any guy but my guy aka the lucky one. Hussey says that any man who wins the high value woman has won a lifetime of Lady Luck by his side.
One way or another Matthew Hussey’s System is getting any determined gal hitched. There was one key myth exposed at the Get the Guy Live event in San Francisco. People assume that any dating advice workshop (in Hussey’s case it’s more of a bootcamp) aimed at women would be filled with over-the-hill ladies horribly deficient in the attractiveness and social savvy department.
Big shocker to find out that the audience was comprised of the polar opposite. It’s beyond me why Hussey is single given the multitudes of young, beautiful, intelligent, fun, and socially successful bombshells that represent his core customer demographics. If you don’t believe me check his website and YouTube channel and see for yourself.
How could so many great catches be single? Hussey has the answer and the solutions.
Ever since feminism radically altered the politics of male-female relations, dating and mating has undergone nothing short of a crisis. As Hussey explained, back in the Victorian Era, women made the first move to invite a man to approach them. He calls this the “handkerchief method”. A woman would drop a handkerchief by a man she was interested in and he would pick it up and return it to her. Best of all, the man would think this was his idea. This social opening allowed the couple to start a conversation. In some instances one thing would lead to another. In 21st century San Francisco and elsewhere, no one has a handkerchief, but few know what other effective strategy to use. That’s where Hussey is a woman’s real life Hitch.
Another critical myth that was busted at the live event was the notion that Hussey is a dating expert. Sure he just wrote a bestselling book called “Get the Guy” and appeared on NBS’s “Ready for Love” but it’s an error to call him a dating coach. What Hussey really does is teach people how to master the art of human dynamics. His “Get the Guy” program is simply one facet of Hussey’s expertise. Its human dynamics tactics applied to cultivating a serious relationship. That is why it works.
There are plenty of dating and attraction programs out there so what makes Matthew Hussey different? In my humble opinion it’s his genuine intention to help women in their love lives. Other dating gurus seem to be either bitter male misogynists or women overtly enamored with the law of attraction and not enough effective action. Hussey is not perfect but he is balanced and that alone makes him stand out.
While I have only read the newsletters of his male contemporaries I’ve had much more experience with female love gurus. To each their own because a program will work for you only as well as its content is compatible with your core beliefs or willingness to build the confidence to follow it through 100%. Hussey proved in his live workshop why “Get the Guy” has caught like wildfire in the UK and now the US. Simply, it works. Why? Hussey can prove results with testimonials. The method speaks for itself really.
“Get the Guy” is also a testament to common sense. To achieve a goal is a simple equation of having a target and being in action consistently to support turning a dream into reality. Everything else is circumspect. Sure, you can meditate for two hours a day and keep telling yourself that love will find you like the Kathryn Alice crowd, but if you don’t get the guts to go online dating and give offline men “the look” at bars, you’re going to end up alone again in a year. Even Hussey himself will tell you that unless you cultivate a strong genuine sense of self-worth, no technique will work, then he proceeds to show you how in his lifestyle retreats.
How do I know this? I’m one of those smart successful women who tried visualizing and believing that "I will get love" (because a love guru insisted I have faith in her program instead) before dates and social events to no effect. What shocked me into reality was when after more than a year of giving my 100% focus to the “Love Will Find You” method of Kathryn Alice, I was still single. Not only was my heart broken by a lack of results but the love guru herself figuratively punched me in the stomach. How? She told me that my failure to manifest a soulmate was due to my laziness.
Kathryn Alice told me that I was substituting with action a failure to address my deep resistance to love. Ever the class act (I’m being sarcastic) Kathryn Alice would not tell me what I was doing wrong and how to change my strategy to get results. All she said to do was to "deepen in her work" and "meditate more" to her audio recordings. Hussey’s method did. As did Debi Berndt’s “Let Love In” series.
Hussey taught me how millimeter shifts in body language and verbal cues can transform results in an instant. Berndt’s clinical hypnotherapy products shifted subconscious programming to align personal beliefs that supported having a love relationship. The combination of the two complementary methods is potent.
Like the saying goes, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result. If whatever you have been doing with full effort has not yielded you the relationship of your dreams, don’t settle. Just go online and “Get the Guy”. Then do everything Hussey says to the letter. You will amaze yourself and being solo just may become an extinct status in your love life.