10 Dating Tips on How to Be Different From the Competition!

By

10 Dating Tips on How to Be Different From the Competition!

Ask yourself, are you trying to attract the average man or the MOYD?

Following is a list of what typical women do upon first meeting a potential MOYD. If you want to be different, listen up.

1. Ask “How do I know you are not some crazy stalker?” (link why do I attract crazy men) The only way you are ever going to know for sure is by your initial conversation. If you truly listen within that first two minutes you will be able to discern exactly the type of individual you are dealing with and whether you want to move forward. Men are simple, and he will reveal who he is and his intentions in the first 60 seconds. You just have to know how to recognize the signs. (How to Interpret a Man’s Approach in 60 Seconds or Less) Don’t make this any more complicated than it is. The real problem is that most women don’t truly listen.

2. Say, “I am too busy right now and have to go.” You and I both know that the only place you were rushing to is your empty house with one cat and a dog. Make time to meet new people. It’s the only way you are going to meet the potential MOYD. Face your fears of meeting people head-on. Your days of being single will dramatically decrease.

3. Wait for the MOYD to approach them. If you see someone you like, go for it. Who cares what the latest Hollywood romance suggested? The question is, do you want a man or do you want to be at home alone in bed when you don’t have to be?

4. Limit the type of men they are attracted to. It's like on an application form when they ask your race, and they have that box that says “other.” Check that box in your brain. True love sees no color, and this will increase your options dramatically. Once again, why be at home alone when the only reason is that you’re scared to meet other people? I know, it's like an episode of “Lost.” “Who are the others?” (Is Race Still Relevant in the Dating World?)

5. Judge a book by its cover. You never know; the MOYD might just have gotten off of work on a construction job, or just come from the gym, which would explain the sweaty smell. The fact that he was able to approach you while not in his best light says something for his confidence. A plus. Keep in mind that a shower, a shave and a change of clothes could quickly turn night into day. So ask yourself the most important questions. Is he nice? Does he have good manners? Is he considerate of your time? And last but not least, does he work construction or did he just come from the gym?

Article contributed by
Advanced Member

How To Get The Man Of Your Dreams.com

Jared Kennedy VP of Customer Relations

How To Get The Man Of Your Dreams

Please like our Fan Page: www.facebook.com/howtogetthemanofyourdreams

The #1 online source for relationship advice.

Location: Wilmington, DE
Credentials: Other
Specialties: Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Empowering Women
Other Articles/News by How To Get The Man Of Your Dreams.com:

Rich Suitor, Poor Boyfriend: What Should You Do?

By

Okay, here is the scenario: You have been with your man for the past couple of years and right now your relationship is on the teeter-totter. It's not good and it's not bad; it's at a stalemate. You work at a private airport and a rich, successful, very attractive businessman walks in off his private jet and takes an interest in you. You, of course, ... Read more

How Do You Know If You Have The Bomb-Dot-com Vajajay?

By

Has a man ever told you that your vajajay is the bomb or that you have some snapper vajajay? Some of you might say, “What is snapper vajajay?” The snapper vajajay is that vajajay that, upon entry, keeps a man coming back. He can be a preacher, pastor, deacon, mayor or president. It matters not. All are defenseless against the bomb-dot-com ... Read more

If Anybody Deserved To Have Sex, Jesus Did

By

How can a man come to save this world and not experience a woman? Women should have been throwing themselves at Jesus on general principle. Here you have a man full of love, but you want to sleep with Barabbas?  All right, I know what you’re thinking: An orgasm with Jesus would have been too much too handle. I can still hear you screaming. How ... Read more

See More

PARTNER POSTS
Latest Expert Videos
Ask The Experts

Have a dating or relationship question?
Visit Ask YourTango and let our experts and community answer.

Most Popular