Communication During Sex: How To Find Your Sexy Voice

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Learn to tap into the power of your own voice.

Expect a certain level of discomfort when you begin moving from guttural sounds and deep purrs into words. One easy way to begin is to describe the sensations of the moment. So, a purring sound could easily slip into "I love the feel of your fingers on my…."  Encourage your partner to find words as well, by asking questions like, “How do you like this motion on your…." Suddenly, words that seemed dirty start to feel comfortable in your mouth, which by itself is a rush of sorts. Allow the excitement to build as you talk with anticipation about what you are going to do to them next. Although most of us were taught to not swear, in this sexy lingo you share with your partner, some of the most forbidden of curse words take on new meaning. I never got the true intensity of the "f" word until I used it forcefully in sex. Likewise, exchanging the sanitary vagina and penis terms for slang words that hold secret power and meaning feels natural, almost instinctive and invites you into a whole new level of play. 

And suddenly, talking dirty isn't really dirty at all. Embodying your erotic potential begins with giving it a voice. How easy is that?

 

Written by Pamela Madsen from Care2.

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