I'm done with being single but just before I go to the sperm bank to have my baby Heather, I want to test my theory. So, between Get the Guy by Matthew Hussey and Debi Berndt's Engaged in A Year... let's see what happens in the next 12 months.
It's not that I dislike single life. I just loved it for too long. I'm ready now to commit to someone worth committing you who feels the same about me. No more emotionally unavailable, indecisive, disinterested and baggage saddled men full of attachment issues who have all the time in the world to settle down. Good luck to them. It's my life and my choice. Not that I am looking to fill a role like a job interview process. Rather, like Debi Berndt says, it's time to be with that extraordinary partner for me and vice versa. No more waiting. Just pure action. Time to get out of my own way when it comes to love ... once and for all ... for good. Like Heather Strang's book The Quest, 2013 is the year my search ends because I finally found the one.
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Right now I am looking forward to seeing Matthew Hussey in a live event while he is here in the US for his North American book launch tour. Afterwards, I'm immersing myself in Debi Berndt's Engaged in A Year intensive coaching. This is serious. Not fence sitting anymore. This is a time for action. Unlike Kathryn Alice's method (the one that takes your money and runs and has no money back guarantee) of doing nothing because your soulmate will find you (but if you're their soulmate too, maybe they are waiting for you to find them too, and you're both being lazy)... this is the year for true love results. At least this time there is, like I said, a money back guarantee. The only risk now is not taking one.