When I tell a man or woman raised in an Old World value system that I am loyal to them as a friend or colleague, they understand what it means. It's not about language but a feeling. There is alot less explaining of my perspective.
Yet when sparks turn into embers in the romantic attraction sense ... it's not Connery that draws my heart out but Brody types. Am I causing this? Is it all my way of staying safe or am I thinking too much? Just like Athena?