Or a better example: A friend of mine had a real sweet tooth in college and got a job at a specialty chocolate shop. For the first three months she indulged her love of chocolate. But she ended up having so much of it that she got sick of it and eventually the aroma of the finest chocolate delicacies could not tempt her. Many time sentiments towards people whom we hold great affection for goes away in much the same manner. While I agree generally with much of Alice's advice I believe that: (1) chasing the wrong thing is only wrong if you are actually physically pursuing it like a fool and qualify for a diagnosis of OCD from a shrink, (2) the best way to get over someone is to meet someone else, so by that logic, date alot of different people so you don't focus on any one person until it's appropriate, and (3) How many times have you seen someone you know, even yourself, indulge in liking someone that was unrequited but it didn't block or prevent you from finding another person who felt the same way towards you? And the instant you found a mutual connection the long held crush was gone instantly? Why? Because you stayed engaged with life and you really only crushed on the other person because it was fun and you didn't take it seriously. In fact, the thought of them was just a tactic to occupy your mind until the real thing came along and you knew it.
Alice is a master teacher of the release and replace method. So to replace what you have given up the attachment to she sells her other CD "Manifesting Love". In all honesty, you are much better off buying a recoding from one of Kathryn Alice's coaches named Lisa Caroselli. Caroselli's meditation Soulmate Love Now: Feel It Before You See It! is sold on her website for about the same price and is a spoken guide you to connect with the feeling of being with your soul mate as if you were together now. It's the principles of the present positive and embodiment, which are key thought training tools in getting your subconscious mind to align with your conscious wishes. So, as I said before, if I understood Alice correctly about work using the Law of Attraction in her method, then the hypnosis script in her "Manifesting Love" CD doesn't jive with its future oriented language of waiting for someone to enter one's life. The language of "Manifesting Love", seems to be the right choice of words if you want to keep reinforcing your identity as a single person waiting for a soul mate. And anyone will tell you, even possibly Alice herself, how much your conscious and subconscious mind will work to keep an identity going.
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The following Amazon review dated December 9, 2012 on Alice’s newest Kindle book Finding Forever Love: 7 Steps to Attract The One (Love Attraction Series) read as follows: I've was single for over three years when I discovered this work. I learned so much from Kathryn, especially how to let go and stop being so desperate. I said a prayer and gave my worries about finding "the one" to God.