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Adding a 3rd, can your relationship handle it?


When one or the other of you want to live the fantasy, will it work?

Everyone thinks about it, most never have the nerve to ask their partner about it. My husband and I have been together for 27 years, and been involved in the alt lifestyle for 22. Can this work?, yes it can. Is it work?, yes it is. Is it worth it and rewarding?,YES,YES,YES for the couple with a strong & secure relationship.

I'm here to answer the hard questions, and give honest advice for those who don't know who to talk to. So ask away!


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