"Obviously, Aaron gets a lot out of using lube, too," Lex says. "But buying lube showed me that he wants to make sex pleasurable for both of us. That's really important in a relationship. I know from firsthand experience that not all guys are like that." It also opened a dialogue, sexual or otherwise. Lex and Aaron easily share their needs and how to meet them. And their sex life is amazing. "Lube was kind of a gateway drug," says Lex. "Once we tried that, we were really curious and open about other ways to enhance our sex life."
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