In other words, you fear failure so much, that you would rather not try, and blame it on a lack of time. However, I have another way of looking at this. When you procrastinate from doing something, it is the same thing as quietly admitting to your self-conscious that you are a failure. If you think of it that way, considering that failure is one of life's greatest horrors; it is better to try, and learn from your experiences, than admit you have already become what it is you fear the most. It is never too late to change your life for the better!
There might be a liar sabotaging most all your online dating relationships... You!