Why Women Don't Date 'Nice' Guys

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Complaining about how kind you are doesn't work, guys.

Ever have a guy tell you he needs to work on being a jerk because he's "too nice?" Puh-lease.

A Tumblr blog called Nice Guys of OKCupid calls out some of the lines from the passive-agressive men looking for love on the dating site.

But why does it bother us so much? Our friends at The Stir came up with a great list of reasons these guys are undateable, from thinking women are obligated to sleep with them to saying that being "nice" is enough.

See the 8 reasons at The Stir: 8 Reasons Women Don't Date 'Nice' Guys.

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