After the honeymoon phase rubs off, you and your wife may not be having the greatest sex life. This not only affects your mood, but it affects your chemistry as a couple. Once you get bored of your bedroom routine, you may keep yourself from saying anything in order to spare your wife's feelings. However, not saying anything won't fix the problem it will only allow it to continue. Love consultants Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal join us to offer advice on spicing things up in the bedroom.

The first step you must take to spicing up you sex life is communicating with your partner about what you're unhappy with. Tamsen Fadal stresses the importance of communication "You really need to keep the lines of communication open. You can't go around keeping that in your mind and thinking it's going to hurt her by not knowing how you feel. It's going to hurt her worse if she doesn't know longterm." 

The second step towards amping up the excitement in the bedroom is changing it up. Routine gets boring. Trying something new with your love will bring an exhilarating high to the both of you. 

Watch the video above for more tips on spicing things up in the bedroom.

 

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