If however, you're more of a clitoral grinder (you rub along the outside or cross your legs to reach orgasm), you want to pick positions that allow for pressure against your pelvic bone, says Dr. Jess. These positions may include:
The Snake: You lie on your stomach with a toy or hand beneath your pubic mound and your partner enters from behind. If you find you're too tight for entry in this position at first, try using a lubricant like Astroglide to ease into the motion.
Scissors: You scissor your legs around one another so that you can grind against your partner's pelvic region.