Texting plays an enormous role in dating and relationships today. Those 160-characters at your fingertips have the power to bring closeness, heighten intimacy, and multiply the sexual energy between you and that guy you have your eye on. After years of research and coaching, I put together a guide, Text Your Way Into His Heart, teaching women like you how to harness the full power of this modern technology to enhance their relationships, from catching the guy of their dreams to keeping him in love and satisfied.
One question, I often receive from clients is how to turn guys on by text. So, here are the seven ways women in my coaching sessions have used over and over again with positive results!
Have you been flirting with a guy a lot over text but want to take it to the next level? Are you seeing someone but want a fun, easy way to put fire back into your sexual life? Do you want to be able to turn any guy on anytime you want?
Here are seven proven ways you can turn any guy on by TEXT. No matter where he is or what he is doing, you can be assured that reading one of your texts will get him hot, excited, and fantasizing about you instantly.
Text him that he is sexy
Telling a man how sexy you think he is will really turn him on. He will feel sexual just knowing you are thinking about him that way, not to mention it boosts his confidence and his testosterone!
Ways to text him how sexy he is:
i was just thinking about how sexy you look in that fitted black button down.. stud...
my friends and i just saw the new bond movie, i couldnt stop thinking about what a sexier james bond you would be
Text him how turned on YOU are
Nothing arouses a man more than knowing that a woman is aroused by him and ready for action. Men love to see that they can pleasure and affect a woman. By texting him that you are on fire for him, he can mentally skip foreplay and get right to the good stuff.
Text him something like:
I was thinking about you and started getting so turned on; now i’m on my bed so wet and horny
i’m too turned on to put clothes on, get here quick
Text Him what you are wearing... or NOT wearing
Men are visual creatures. Help his imagination out a little bit by describing where you are or what you are doing and what your are wearing. Make
Try one of these texts:
oh, i'm just laying on my bed in a tight tank top and short shorts texting the most amazing guy i've ever met
just got out of the shower and trying to decide between the red lacy thong or the Pink boy shorts...
Text Him what you want to do to him
Texting a guy something sexual that you are dying to do to him is a surefire way to turn him on instantly! Men cannot help but imagine you doing that very thing you are describing and won’t be able to stop thinking about it. Drive him crazy just by telling him how bad you want him.
Get him turned on instantly with one of these:
I can’t wait to see you tonight... i’m going to take you into the bedroom and ride you all night long
if you were here right now id take your pants off with my teeth and give you the best blowjob of your life
Text him what you want him to do to you
Many women have a hard time asking for things sexually or even talking directly about what they like in bed. For men, a woman who owns her sexuality and celebrates her own pleasure is a total turn on. Women are complex beings sexually and men could use all the help they can get.