Seven simple GUARANTEED ways to excite a man, make him want you and drive him crazy with desire.
Texting plays an enormous role in dating and relationships today. Those 160-characters at your fingertips have the power to bring closeness, heighten intimacy, and multiply the sexual energy between you and that guy you have your eye on. After years of research and coaching, I put together a guide, Text Your Way Into His Heart, teaching women like you how to harness the full power of this modern technology to enhance their relationships, from catching the guy of their dreams to keeping him in love and satisfied.
One question, I often receive from clients is how to turn guys on by text. So, here are the seven ways women in my coaching sessions have used over and over again with positive results!
Have you been flirting with a guy a lot over text but want to take it to the next level? Are you seeing someone but want a fun, easy way to put fire back into your sexual life? Do you want to be able to turn any guy on anytime you want?
Here are seven proven ways you can turn any guy on by TEXT. No matter where he is or what he is doing, you can be assured that reading one of your texts will get him hot, excited, and fantasizing about you instantly.
Text him that he is sexy
Telling a man how sexy you think he is will really turn him on. He will feel sexual just knowing you are thinking about him that way, not to mention it boosts his confidence and his testosterone!
Ways to text him how sexy he is:
i was just thinking about how sexy you look in that fitted black button down.. stud...
my friends and i just saw the new bond movie, i couldnt stop thinking about what a sexier james bond you would be
Text him how turned on YOU are
Nothing arouses a man more than knowing that a woman is aroused by him and ready for action. Men love to see that they can pleasure and affect a woman. By texting him that you are on fire for him, he can mentally skip foreplay and get right to the good stuff.
Text him something like:
I was thinking about you and started getting so turned on; now i’m on my bed so wet and horny
i’m too turned on to put clothes on, get here quick
Text Him what you are wearing... or NOT wearing
Men are visual creatures. Help his imagination out a little bit by describing where you are or what you are doing and what your are wearing. Make
Try one of these texts:
oh, i'm just laying on my bed in a tight tank top and short shorts texting the most amazing guy i've ever met
just got out of the shower and trying to decide between the red lacy thong or the pink boy shorts...
Text Him what you want to do to him
Texting a guy something sexual that you are dying to do to him is a surefire way to turn him on instantly! Men cannot help but imagine you doing that very thing you are describing and won’t be able to stop thinking about it. Drive him crazy just by telling him how bad you want him.
Get him turned on instantly with one of these:
I can’t wait to see you tonight... i’m going to take you into the bedroom and ride you all night long
if you were here right now id take your pants off with my teeth and give you the best blowjob of your life
Text him what you want him to do to you
Many women have a hard time asking for things sexually or even talking directly about what they like in bed. For men, a woman who owns her sexuality and celebrates her own pleasure is a total turn on. Women are complex beings sexually and men could use all the help they can get. They love it when you are loving it! So, texting him that naughty thing you love that he does will get him excited and ensure a great night for you, too!
Drive him wild with these texts:
i love it when you swirl your tongue around my nipple, i get so turned on!
you have no idea how badly i want you to bend me over a chair and enter me reaching around to stroke me until i cant help but scream with pleasure
Text Him a Naughty Question
If you are not sure what to text, you can always ask him a suggestive question to get his mind thinking dirty thoughts. Questions can be less intimidating to text and you may learn a few things you never knew about him while you're at it!
A few questions to get him thinking naughty thoughts about you:
hey, i was wondering... what is your favorite sexual fantasy?
very important question ;) - what is your favorite body part on a woman?
Text Him a Sexy Pic
You don’t have to go nude (you wouldn’t want that spread around the internet, would you?), but texting a suggestive picture is the absolute fastest way to turn a guy on. Men are visual, so an unexpected picture of you in a lacy bra giving him a smoldering look or biting your lip will go straight to his crotch! Texting a picture is all about showing a little bit of skin without exposing yourself in a way that you might regret later. A bit of cleavage, some upper thigh or lower stomach is all it takes to send a powerful message. If he wants to see more? He can only get that in person...with chocolate sauce and whipped cream.
Any one of these texts is guaranteed to get your guy turned on so he is just begging for more. So test the waters by sending one text on its own or up the ante with a combo-text-turn-on.
You can text him how turned on you are and then text him specifically what you want to do to him. Or, you can ask him for his favorite female body part; then, when he responds, send him a quick pic of yours.
The possibilities are endless. Choose your favorites, take some risks and enjoy the sexy, insatiable responses you are guaranteed to get.
Have fun sending naughty messages and turning your guy on by text!
If you would like more instruction and ready-to-use examples on getting the most out of your text messages and boosting your love life, check out the full guide, Text Your Way Into His Heart, available on Amazon Kindle and Nook.