Are you hung up on your ex? Do you constantly compare people to him only to discover that nobody measures up? If so, you aren't alone.
In this video, author, relationship coach and YourTango Expert Charly Emery suggests that you "reposition your focus" and urges you to realize that what you miss about your ex has less to do with him as a person and more to do with the way you felt when you were together.
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