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Should I Lower My Standards To Find Love?


Have you set your sights too high? Find out now!

Is it taking you a long time to find the right guy? Are you concerned that you've set unrealistic standards? Do you expect to have your cake ... and eat it, too? If so, help is on the way.

In this video, author, dating coach and YourTango Expert Jennifer Wilkov explains that "the best thing for you to do is find out what's important to you. That means identifying your top five values."

It's possible that you've spent so much time building an image of what the perfect guy is to the point that you have set your sights too high. If you are worried that this fits the bill, this advice may be just what the doctor ordered. Find out now! Want to learn more? Check out the video above!


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