Overall, I had a fantastic start with Alex and Aggie as my mental equivalent inspiration. So much so that my mind just started looking for more of the same because it was what I was focusing on. The more I observed the more I got confirmation that it was easy to find and keep a certain quality of relationship. As the objective observer, the data I collect only becomes more evidence of how easy and effortless it is to attract a soulmate and sustain a lifelong happy connection with them. Thanks Alex and Aggie, POF.com, and CaughtMyFish.com. You were the first to teach by example but I'm glad that you two are not the last.
Confession: Before that day I found Kathryn Alice's book by accident (it was misfiled in the cooking section) I was 100% convinced that being part of a "committed couple" meant being locked up in a prison for life.
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Lesson: Uninstall the bad, free up memory space, install the good, when it comes to your mind not your hard drive!