In this video, author, life coach and YourTango Expert Kiva Leatherman explains why your wife won't accept your offers to help with the kids, and suggests that you "[g]ive your wife a surprise break ... let her do something that really refuels her." After all, every mother can benefit from a break, says Kiva, explaining that "as we create more space through self care, it actually becomes easier to ask for help because we're more organized, we're calmer."
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