In reality, Miranda and I didn't have the funds to fulfill that promise so we knew we had to strategize. Mercedes would make sure Athena watched the modules every day and implemeted it. We also got memberships for ourselves. This way we could reinforce Hussey's techniques properly to Athena. I'd watch the modules here in San Francisco and act as accountability coach for Athena. She had to meet five new guys a day. Mercedes would be her social secretary and plan her daily itinerary to keep her socially involved in the eligible singles scene in Chicago. Mercedes enlisted Athena's sister Krissa, who lives just five minutes away, to be her wingwoman out on the town every night in the Windy City. Athena was ordered to use Chicago's night life as a lab to put into practice everything that Hussey taught in the modules.
Athena resisted for the first week but Mercedes and I were committed to her finding a man who would return her feelings in equal or greater measure. The first week was really was a struggle but by the second week and beyond, Athena hit her stride. Long story short Athena became so busy finding a new date every day from eligible men on the subway, shopping centers, the street, and everywhere in between. The result was that she wasn't thinking of Calvin anymore once her options grew exponentially. Naturally this also meant that Athena stopped being in commmuiccation with Calvin because she was on dates or meeting other men. By Columbus day on October 13, Athena had "apple of her eye".
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His name is Stellios and like is a fellow doctor, a heart surgeon at that, who is also of Greek heritage, similar inage, never married and no kids, and totally available to her. Most important in this candidate for Athena's heart was the fact that he was head over heels into her the moment they met.
Ironically, at the same time Calvin started initiating more contact with Athena but she returned his calls less often and took longer to reply. The same thing also happened when Calvin sent an e-mail. It was not a conscious decision from Athena to take so long to respond back to Calvin. She just was not available to the man who didn't realize in time that she was a catch. CUalvin's girlfriend is just as beautiful and a prize in her own right. She is not the issue. The issue was calvin using Athena's crush on him to selfishly boost his ow ego without any consideration for her feeling. What a narcissist! Athena was busy enjoying being the object of affection being seriously pursued by a handsome doctor.
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By US election day on November 6, Calvin sent Athena a text message that he had ended his relationship with his blonde bombshell girlfriend out of the blue. Athena read his message and planned to respond when she was back from a spontaneous trip to Montréal with Stellios. That same day also included a series of e-mails from Calvin that literally begged Athena to go out with him. What was interesting was how the frequency of e-mails from Calvin during Athena's trip to Montréal, revealed that he was e-mailing her every hour on the hour for six straight hours on a Tuesday night. Calvin's last e-mail was the most telling. In an ironic twist and paradox of fate, Calvin told Athena he wanted to date her and now had romantic feelings. Unfortunatley for Calvin, it was now his turn to be in the friend zone. This 180 degree turn all happened in just six weeks thanks to Matthew Hussey's coachng via his online pre-recorded seminar.