There are different types of addictions, some more serious than others. Hard core addictions to things like drugs and alcohol are clearly the most severe and warrant cause for concern.
On the flip side, there are people that consider themselves addicts to things like coffee, eating and shopping. While not as serious, these do qualify as addictions all the same to a certain extent. There is even such a thing as being addicted to the Internet. That should be no surprise, as the numbers of online users continues to grow each year.
Social media, online poker sites and other interactive Internet activities, have undoubtedly added to the long list of reasons why so many willingly spend hours each day in a virtual setting. Cyber-relationship addiction is a term that you might not be familiar with but it is recognized as an addiction and could be one you may not even be aware of suffering from.
What is Cyber-Relationship Addiction?
This condition is considered a sub-category of what is more widely recognized as Internet Addiction Disorder, also known as IAD. By definition, cyber-relationship addiction or "CRA" describes a person who engages in online behavior, such as online chatting, messaging and social networking to a point where the user begins to place more value on fostering and maintaining their online relationships than on their real-world interactions with friends, family and other loved ones.
In a nutshell, a person suffering from CRA would rather spend their time with virtual friends and relationships than with those same individuals or others offline.
What Are the Signs of Cyber-Relationship Addiction?
Because engaging in online activities is so commonplace in today's society, it can be difficult to tell the difference between what is considered "healthy" and "unhealthy" Internet use. However, there are some key signs that could point to CRA:
- Spending countless hours online without realizing it
- Allowing your Internet use to interrupt your daily routine
- Failing to complete tasks or other priorities because you'd rather be on the Internet
- Finding more satisfaction by being online than other activities or hobbies that used to produce those same feelings of satisfaction
- Feelings of anxiety or suffering from panic attacks when not online
- Having trouble interacting or relating to friends and family in real life
- Changing your lifestyle/routine in order to allow for more time online
Based on those signs, it's easy to see how disruptive cyber-relationship addiction can be to a person's life.
What to Do About It?