It is also advisable to devote some time and effort to the areas between the outer labia and the tops of the thighs as the outer wings and legs of the clitoris lie under these areas and stimulation here encourages engorgement of these parts with blood which contributes to arousal and orgasm.
Now direct your attention to the inner lips of the Yoni. Take your time and watch your recipient relax. If all is going well and the recipient is relaxing and ‘warming’ to the experience, you may notice that her Yoni is becoming more slippery to the touch. This will be because she is becoming sexually aroused and producing her own female lubricant. This female sexual lubricant is much finer and more slippery than any massage oil that I have ever used.
Massage the inner labia of her yoni in a similar way to the outer labia. Ask if the pressure, speed and depth of the strokes are adequate, or if they need to be increased/decreased. While massaging these areas, be sure to continue the strokes right to the top of the yoni and over the clitoral hood to begin preparing the clitoris for more direct contact.
Gently stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counterclockwise circles. Gently squeeze the clitoris between thumb and index finger. Both of these movements can be done through the clitoral hood before making direct contact with the clitoris as the clitoris may be rather sensitive to direct touch unless the recipient is well aroused. She may become very aroused at this point so encourage her to relax and breathe.
The ‘jewel’ in the Yoni is the clitoris. This little ‘jigger’ is several times more sensitive than the male Lingam, so be a little considerate of that sensitivity. Sometimes, the clitoris can be so sensitive that it is uncomfortable, even painful to touch directly. This can vary from woman to woman and for any individual woman from encounter to encounter. Be aware of the possibility of this extreme sensitivity. This extreme sensitivity is not unlike the extreme sensitivity of the head of the Lingam just after orgasm and ejaculation.
The good thing about this extreme sensitivity is that it often becomes less of a problem as the woman’s level of arousal increases. If it is a problem at the beginning of the massage, rub the clitoris through the clitoral hood, keeping the outer labia together until the subject is more able to cope with the sensitivity.
If/when the recipient is able to accept direct clitoral contact, begin by gently stroking it in both clockwise and anti-clockwise directions and squeeze it gently between your thumb and index finger. You can also GENTLY pull on it (IF you can get grip on it with all that female lubricant over it.), in a similar fashion to pulling on a woman’s nipples but with much more awareness of her responses. You can also rub a thumb or two fingers held together in an ‘up-and-down’ direction over the clitoris. Some women also enjoy having the heel of the hand placed over the clitoris, some little pressure applied and the hand moved in small movements in circles, figure 8’s or just randomly.
The recipient may be well and truly aroused by now but try not to allow an orgasm just yet. Let the sensations build. The more the sensations build before release, the bigger, brighter and better the orgasm is likely to be. If it becomes too much, just back off a bit and encourage her to breathe deeply. When she has relaxed a little, continue with the massage.