Do you always date the same type of person? If so, it's time to break your dating pattern.
In this video, author, relationship coach and YourTango Expert Charly Emery explains that this very common issue can be fixed in just two ways. "Take a step back and think about what your ideal relationship actually looks like ... then use that relationship experience that you just defined to help you choose a partner that's going to be the right partner for you."
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How will this work? Charly says that taking the time to think about these things will help you find the guy who understands you. Then, it will be "easy to make magic and you'll be surprised at how fantastic that relationship will be."
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