7) There isn't someone for everyone. Once you can accept that possibility, you'll stop putting all that pressure on yourself to be looking out for Mr. or Ms. Wonderful. It can help you resist the harassment others can put on you to settle with anyone just so you won't be alone at night anymore, and it can prevent you from putting the force of coupling up on someone who is gladly living the life of a lone wolf. The truth of the matter is, there are plenty of folks who roam solo for their entire life. They can fill time with traveling the world, hobbies, friends and family, and not need the companionship of a lover to be satisfied. One of the greatest women I knew never married or had children, but she did many amazing things and had no regrets for the choices she made. We are not all destined for love, and that is still very much okay.
"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” ― C.G. Jung