In this video, psychologist, relationship coach and YourTango Expert Dr. Amy Johnson explains "it's really common for relationships — especially new relationships — to trigger our insecurities." And one way insecurities manifest is through obsessions. Effective Alternatives To Nagging Your Husband
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So, what's a girl to do? One thing Dr. Johnson suggests is to "take a look at the fears that are coming up when you're in that needy, kind of obsessed energy ... Ask yourself questions like 'What am I afraid of right now?' or 'What's the worst-case scenario? Questions like that will help you get to the root of what that fear is really about for you."
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