The "Stranger" Method to Saving Your Marriage

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The "Stranger" Method to Saving Your Marriage
How to boost the communication in your marriage with "The Stranger" Method

“Treat a man as he is, and he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he could be, and he will become what he should be.”

– Ralph Waldo Emerson, American poet

 

Communication in marriage is the doorway to mutual understanding. Without it, even the most loving couples will end up apart. Do you communicate with strangers better than you do with your husband? You might be unconsciously jeopardizing your marriage.
The Lurking Danger in Comfort

Long term relationships have many bonuses. One of them is comfort. We tend to feel relaxed and at ease with those we love (and that love us).

We feel free to slouch on the sofa in our underwear, feel free to have a bad hair day and we feel free to be who are. Where else if not at home?

But we also feel free to display an uglier behavior than we do in public. We allow ourselves to say and do things that we would NEVER do in the presence of our friends or even strangers.
Do You Treat Strangers BETTER Than You Treat Your Husband?

Just see these 3 examples of common daily situations to realize how you probably treat everyone else better than your husband.

1. Would you say “that’s stupid” to a stranger that doesn’t share your opinion about something?

Instead, you would say something like” I don’t agree with you, because…”

How many times have you responded with “that’s stupid” or “shut up” or even name calling during a disagreement with your husband?

2. Would you roll your eyes in your best friend’s face when she displays one of her little annoying habits?...Keep reading at the source - http://www.how-to-save-marriage.org/communication-in-marriage/