To Booty Call or Not

To Booty Call or Not

To Booty Call or Not

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How to decide whether or not you should answer that booty call.

By David Wygant for Cupid's Pulse

It's summer, and it's the season of the booty call. A lot of you go to vacation homes. A lot of you head to the beach, the lakefront, or even just the neighborhood pool. The fact is, the sun bakes your brain. You've heard about the bad effects of the sun on your skin. Nobody's talked about the bad effects the sun has on your libido and brain.

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Some of you will grab a glass of wine, a beer or maybe a cocktail. You’ll lie out in the sun and listen to your iPod, kickback to the music and start feeling all warm and toasty inside. You'll think to yourself, “All that's missing is a great man…

You look around and a man will get your attention. There he is, and he's wearing that bathing suit that you like. You're looking at his arms; you see his skin glistening in the sun. You see his arms moving, and you think to yourself how good it would feel to be next to him.

No, this is not some cheap romance novel that I'm about to write. This is something that we all need to talk about right now. The question is:

To booty call or not?

Here's the deal: Summer tends to work up our libidos just a bit. How could it not? We're walking around half-naked most of the time. And that’s fine with me.

Let me tell you something: I think booty calls are fantastic. I think every woman out there needs a lover to take the edge off. I think every woman out there should have five, six or seven orgasms a night with a great, amazing lover.

But the problem is, a lot of these guys you see running around this summer were let out of the zoo. When men are seeing all these women around them, they get over stimulated, and they act like bunch of animals in the zoo that have never seen a woman in a bathing suit, a short skirt or a summer dress before.

So if you're going to booty call this summer, I strongly suggest you interview for that booty call and don't give up the booty to anybody who's willing to call. Turn on your sexuality. Feel great. Talk to the guy at the pool, the lake and the beach. Smile, flirt with them and realize you have the power.

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Take some time interviewing the right guy, get to know them and then have yourself some really hot August nights. If it takes you the whole month of July to find the right guy that you can booty call the last half of the summer with, then so be it.

Plus, hot August nights are great—they're intimate and they're passionate.

In order for you to find the right guy that can handle it, the guy who's going to sexually satisfy you, you've got to realize the position of power that you're actually in, that position for you to choose the right booty call.

To booty call or not to booty call?