Starting to figure it out...

So I haven't spoke to the 'Friend with Benefits' in two days now, which I actually feel good about. It's made me realise that were just friends, and so theres no need to talk everyday and try and get any type of affection other than what friends will give each other. I decided that that night we spent together was fun, and if it happened again then that would be fine, but I'm not going to push for it.
To me, in my head, I've figured where I stand, and I know that if anything more was to happen then it would be strictly physical, because even though the emotion may be nice at this time, it probably won't be in the long run.

My ex-partner has been texting and facebooking me frequently still. It's starting to get to me now, because even though I finished it and wanted to make things easier for him, when he talks to me everyday and says that he misses me, it doesn't make things easier for me. I'm trying to take a step back. I won't change my mind about my decision to break up with him, which is making it harder because I don't want him to think that I will. I've told him I just want to be friends and that it is completly over, but I still don't think he fully understands.

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I'm definatly realising that being single is harder than being in a relationship in many ways! Thank god I have this blog to explain my feelings to! I expect there will be more updates soon!!