Keep in mind that your looks will change over time (an unholy reality, in my opinion), so don't judge your man by different standards than those you are willing to follow. As time goes by, many couples begin to resemble each other anyway!
1. They didn't have a huge wedding. I'm a total girly-girl but when I imagine my wedding, I don't want a big to-do. In fact, I'd prefer a small, intimate gathering of my favorite people in my lake house town. My parents had a small affair, only costing a whopping $500 for everything and they never thought twice about it. It wasn't the best day of their entire life, it was just the beginning of their marriage, which has had many, many even better days.