Keep in mind that your looks will change over time (an unholy reality, in my opinion), so don't judge your man by different standards than those you are willing to follow. As time goes by, many couples begin to resemble each other anyway!
Steve Harvey developed Delightful, an online dating service for women to make them "more dateable." Right. Because women are the problem, not men who have been divorced twice, married a woman with whom they cheated on their second spouse, and think mustaches are a good idea.