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Has reading 'Fifty Shades' Sparked Your Interest in Bondage?

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Has reading 'Fifty Shades' Sparked Your Interest in Bondage?

It took me less than a week and a half to read all three 'Fifty Shades' books by E.L. James. After I read these books, I must have told all of my girlfriends and guy friends about the books and posted about the book on my facebook wall. I just could not get enough of the books. It seems that I am not the only one. What sparked me to buy this book was that other people were posting about it on facebook, bringing up the book in casual conversations, bloggers were writing about it, and the media was buzzing about it.

I personally loved the story. The relationship between billionaire, bondage loving businessman Christian Grey and innocent, inexperienced, Anastasia Steele is not without a lot of complications. Anastasia is about to graduate college when she meets successful, handsome, and very wealthy Christian Grey. Anastasia feels the electricity between them when she first meets him as he feels it for her too. As the book goes on, you see how much the characters evolve and their relationship takes on a whole new level. There are a lot of hot, sexual situations in this book. Anastasia experiences pleasure that she never knew existed, but struggles with her own fears of how far Christian who really take it with her.

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After reading this book, some of you may be thinking about your own sexual relationship and the idea of spicing things up with a little bondage play. There are different levels of bondage play, and does not necessarily mean getting tied up and having pain or extreme discomfort inflicted on either partner. Bondage play can be an extreme turn on for both partners and can be something as simple as being restrained while your partner teases you with a feather tickler, lightly whips, or explores your body with his or her fingers, and mouth. In addition to your normal foreplay, taking control of your partner or playing the submissive one is sexually stimulating for many couples and is a way to keep your sex life exciting. If you are looking to experiment with bondage play, there are a number of great beginner kits and products that you and your partner may enjoy. These items are not intimidating for first time users.

Furry Cuffs - these cuffs are lined with soft, leopard print fur. These cuffs are comfortable to use and may be less intimidating than regular hand cuffs. Plus, there is a quick release latch for safety, which allows you to release yourself from the cuffs without assistance. A great alternative for individuals who do not like the cold, hard feeling of regular hand cuffs.

Lover's Prisoner Kit - Doing time has never been more fun. Take your partner into custody and make him or her the prisoner of your desires. Inclludes two wrist and ankle restraints, rubber whip, and a soft collar with attachable leash. sometimes it feels good to be bad.

Vanilla Bondage Kit - A fantastic light bondage play kit that features a silky blindfold mask and two silky vanilla colored ties. This is a great gift to surprise your lover with as it is playfully packaged in a realistic looking ice cream container. The Vanilla Bondage Kit will wet your appetite, leaving you and your partner craving for more.

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Sexy Slave Kit - Make your lover obey your every sexual command. The Sexy Slave Kit includes soft, red cuffs, a blindfold, and a delightful feather tickler. This kit includes everything you need to enjoy memorable nights of bondage play.

Remember, it is important that you and your partner feel completely comfortable with bondage play. Relax and enjoy yourselves. You may find that you and your partner will incorporate bondage play more often in the bedroom.

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