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Do you find it difficult to make time for sex? Are you always either too tired or too busy for intimacy with your partner? Don't worry, you're not alone, and there is hope. I Caught My Man Looking At Porn. Is He Cheating?

In this video, licensed phychotherapist, author and YourTango Expert Dr. Tammy Nelson explains that it's common for sex to become less frequent over the course of a long-term relationship. Fortunately, there are some things you can try to increase the eroticism in your love life.

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Dr. Tammy says that couples should work on the sexual side of their relationships just as much as they work on the companionship element. Otherwise, she warns, "it's not gonna take care of itself."

Want more of Dr. Tammy's advice? Check out the video above.

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