If you ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seems more interested in going out and spending
time with you than before,or f you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you,then it's
okay to be a little hopeful but you nedd to avaoid jumping the gun. Are you asking yourself "does my ex want to get back with me.
These are definitely very common sign that your ex is interested in getting you back. But even if you want to
get back with your ex, you should not simply jump into things. The best way to play things is to play hard to get (in moderation) which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway. IF you simply jump into things
full force, then you may find you ex pushing back again.
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If fact, if you r ex is giving indications that her or she wants you back,then the odds are, it was you playing
hard to get that led to the renewed interest in the first place. Usually when you break up with your ex or
he or she break with you, there is a natural level of missing one another, or longing to get back together.
This is especially true following a relationship of a year or longer.
Your ex is probably going to miss you no matter what, because of how many memories were shared together
during this period of time. But there are other emotions that come into play including past regrets.
If you are wondering "does my ex want to get back with me' the odds are that your ex may be thinking
the same thing for the same reasons sometimes when and ex interest again following a breakup however,
it is only a game. They may see that you love them, and they may simply be trying to get attention,
without actually intending to get you back.
So unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time with you,they may just be passing the time because they have no other prospects on the horizon. And worst of all they may see this as way to get
revenge for some perceive wrong. This is why it is important not to jump the gun, and why you should focus
on reading into the situation before you act on it.
This is common, and a lot of people find themselves wondering "does my ex want to get back with me?",but
truth is, its better to get a feel for the situation before you act. In reality,if your ex does want to get back with you,playing hard to get (in moderation) is the best scenario because it will prevent you from getting hurt if your ex i s not really serious about getting back with you.
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